Matt Baume & Classic Sitcom Queers

Matt Baume
Matt Baume explores the impact of LGBTQ+ representation on sitcoms. By analyzing iconic shows like "All in the Family" and "The Golden Girls," he provides a thought-provoking dialogue about the evolution queer television. Discussion includes television's ability to shape culture, foster empathy, and create a sense of belonging for individuals in marginalized communities.

Ready for an enlightening journey through the decades? We’re thrilled to welcome Matt Baume, popular YouTube sensation and author of “Hi Honey, I’m Homo,” to our podcast. Together, we traverse the fascinating terrain of queer representation in TV. We delve into the complexities of these portrayals and the courageous sitcoms that dared to feature queer characters.

We take a deep dive into the rich history of queer characters on American sitcoms, such as Bewitched, All in the Family, Golden Girls, Modern Family and more. With Matt’s wide-ranging knowledge and our curiosity, we uncover the impact these characters had on the fight for equality and our understanding of the LGBTQ+ community.


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About Honey I’m Homo

“This book is a triumph and everyone should read it.”
—Dan Savage, journalist and author, on the “Savage Lovecast”

Hi Honey, I’m Homo is a heartbreaking historical document, but ultimately one that will leave the reader feeling proud of how something as maligned and disposable as the network sitcom used comedy to bring about such profound and important social progress.”

“[A] well-curated compendium of prime time broadcasting . . . Baume is a companionable guide.”
Shelf Awareness

Behind the scenes of the most popular sitcoms of the 20th century, a revolution was brewing.

For decades, amidst the bright lights, studio-audience laughs, and absurdly large apartment sets, the real-life story of American LGBTQ+ liberation unfolded in plain sight in front of millions of viewers, most of whom were laughing too hard to mind.

From flamboyant relatives on Bewitched to closely-guarded secrets on All in the Family, from network-censor fights over Soap to behind-the-scenes activism on the set of The Golden Girls, from Ellen’s culture clash and Will & Grace’s mixed reception to Modern Family’s primetime power-couple, Hi Honey, I’m Homo! is the story not only of how subversive queer comedy transformed the American sitcom, from its inception through today, but how our favorite sitcoms transformed, and continue to transform, America.

Accessible, entertaining, and informative, Hi Honey, I’m Homo! features commentary and interviews from celebrities, behind-the-scenes creators, and more.

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Episode Details

About this Episode

In a world where representation matters, the power of television cannot be underestimated. In this episode of the Queer We Are podcast, I’m joined by the incredible Matt Baume, an expert in pop culture history from a queer perspective. Together, we delve into the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ representation in sitcoms, exploring the obstacles, successes, and missed opportunities that characterized the portrayal of queer characters over the decades.

Exploring “Hi, Honey. I’m Homo”:

One of the key topics of discussion revolves around Matt Baume’s book, “Hi, Honey. I’m Homo,” which brilliantly explores the portrayal of queer characters on American sitcoms. From the ground-breaking shows of the past like “Bewitched,” “Soap,” “All in the Family,” and “The Golden Girls,” to more recent hits like “Friends,” “Ellen,” and “Modern Family,” Baume takes readers on a journey through time and highlights the evolution of queer representation on screen.
Shedding Light on the Impact of “All in the Family”:
Among the shows discussed, “All in the Family” receives special attention for its groundbreaking and courageous portrayal of queer characters. Baume applauds the show’s bravery in including a gay character at a time when such representation was virtually unheard of. They highlight the pivotal 1971 episode, “Judging Books by Covers,” which tackled assumptions about people’s sexuality, highlighting the immense impact it had on television and society as a whole.

A Reflection of Society:

Baume astutely discusses the complex relationship between television and societal shifts, as well as the ongoing debate of whether sitcoms influenced society or merely reflected its changes. By showcasing examples from different eras, such as the gender-related storyline in 1958, the unacknowledged homosexuality in “All in the Family” in 1971, and the openly gay characters in “Will and Grace” in 1998, Baume emphasizes how television has played a significant role in introducing diverse stories and characters to millions of viewers.
Missed Opportunities and the Importance of Inclusivity:
While celebrating the progress made in LGBTQ+ representation on sitcoms, Baume also addresses the missed opportunities and the necessity of authentic storytelling. They remark on instances where the handling of queer characters could have been better and suggest that consulting with members of the LGBTQ+ community could have helped ensure more accurate and nuanced portrayals. Baume’s insightful comments highlight the need for continual improvement and inclusion in the industry.

The Impact of “The Golden Girls”:
Another iconic sitcom that takes center stage in the conversation is “The Golden Girls.” Baume praises the show for its inclusive portrayal of a chosen family, tackling LGBTQ+ topics with grace and sincerity. They also appreciate the fact that the show fearlessly addressed the HIV epidemic, providing much-needed visibility and understanding during a time of fear and uncertainty.
Television as a Powerful Mirror:
Through Baume’s exploration of LGBTQ+ representation in sitcoms, a recurring theme emerges; television acts as a mirror to society, shaping our imaginations and understanding of the lives we could have. Baume eloquently emphasizes the significance of spending time with classic television and films, appreciating the shared experience and the opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals.


This episode featuring Matt Baume offers an enlightening and in-depth conversation about the journey of LGBTQ+ representation in sitcoms. From the daring portrayal of queer characters on “All in the Family” to the inclusive and heartfelt storytelling in “The Golden Girls,” Baume’s analysis showcases the power of television in shaping societal perceptions and providing representation to the often marginalized queer community. By reflecting on the past and assessing the present, we can strive for a future where authentic, diverse, and inclusive storytelling reigns supreme in the world of sitcoms.

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